Do you remember what it was like when you first met? You likely put effort into your outward appearance because you wanted the other person to see you as attractive. Couples with the power to maintain physical attraction to one another throughout the years tend to never stop trying to look pleasing to their significant other. This may mean something as simple as wearing a certain type of clothing because you know your partner enjoys it or something more committal, like working to stay in shape.
On the one hand, your close friends probably know you better than your other friends, which means they have a good idea of what you’re like. Any guy that shares your mutual interests and with whom you have some form of access to is a friend. Discuss issues openly before they fester (see how to talk to your spouse when unhappy).
Be an active listener, and show genuine interest in what they say. Creating a comfortable and engaging environment encourages the guy to open up and initiate further conversations with you. Be a good listener and provide support when needed. As you develop a strong bond, the person may begin to see you in a different light. Attracting someone who is not initially interested in you requires patience and understanding. Focus on building a friendship first, without any expectations.
I know that trust doesn’t come easily if you’ve been hurt in the past. But please realize that this guy isn’t that guy. And if you want this relationship to work out, you’re going to have to trust him at some point.
It’s a long way from the blissful happiness you felt when you first married. We don’t really need science to tell us this—it’s human nature to be attracted to people who are interesting. If you’re not a couple yet, find subtle ways to touch him and see how he reciprocates. Brief touches are good and have been shown to make a difference. Studies have even found that female waitresses who lightly touch male customers get higher tips. In one study, touching coupled with eye contact caused elevated heart rates and increased desire, and in another, it only took brief touches to increase likeability and attraction.
It’s a question that many women have asked themselves at some point in their lives: “How can I make him love me?” While there is no foolproof formula for making someone fall in love with you, there are certainly ways to increase your chances of capturing his heart.
Treating him like a hero will activate three very important drives in every man; the need to feel appreciated and valued, to be respected, and to provide for those he loves. Granted, you might not have as much time, or maybe kids and work limit the amount of intimacy you have, but touching can be really simple and quick. Addressing someone by their name is a powerful tool.
For example, if your husband’s love language is words of affirmation, he will feel most loved when you give him kind words of love and support. If his love language is acts of service, it means he will feel most loved when you do things to help him and make his life easier. When men feel needed and appreciated, it gives them a sense of purpose in their relationship and makes them feel more committed and connected to their partner. If your husband has fallen out of love with you, this will be the most eye-opening presentation you have ever seen.
Communicate effectively
One of the most important aspects of building a successful relationship is effective communication. Be open and honest with him about your feelings, thoughts, and desires. Listen actively when he speaks and show genuine interest in what he has to say. Communication is key to developing a strong emotional connection.
Show your authentic self
Don’t try to be someone you’re not in an attempt to win his affection. Be true to yourself and let your unique personality shine through. Authenticity is attractive and by being genuine, you are more likely to attract someone who truly appreciates you for who you are.
Be patient and give him space
It’s important to remember that love takes time to develop and cannot be forced. Give him space to pursue his own interests and spend time with his friends. Avoid being clingy or overly demanding as this can be a turn-off. Trust that if the connection is meant to be, it will naturally grow stronger over time.
Show kindness and support
One way to make him feel loved is by showing kindness and offering support during challenging times. Be there for him when he needs a listening ear or a shoulder to lean on. Small gestures of kindness can go a long way in nurturing a deep emotional bond.
In conclusion, while you cannot control someone else’s feelings, there are steps you can take to increase the likelihood of making him fall in love with you. By communicating effectively, showing your authentic self, being patient, and demonstrating kindness and support, you can create a strong foundation for a loving and lasting relationship.
